Answer:
grep "log message" logfile.log | awk '{ print $18 }' | sort | uniq -c
Example:
[cygwin] $ grep "Missing post body" mpi.log |awk '{print $18}' |sort |uniq -c |sort -rn 6 82.1.184.81 6 212.121.212.149 4 62.49.164.229 2 62.140.196.160 [cygwin] $
Note: the "sort -rn" at the end sorts results by number of occurrence